The manosphere is a name given to an informal network of blogs, websites, and internet commentators that focus on issues relating to men and masculinity, often in opposition to gynocentricism. The manosphere is divided into three categories; MRAs, PUAs and MGTOW.
Mens Right Activists or MRAs are men who advocate for changes to be made to the current gynocentric and subsequently minsadric policies/laws that harm men and boys i.e. child custody, alimony, domestic violence, rape etc. There approach is to highlight the plight of men and hope that this will have the desired effect and lead to changes. What MRAs forget or just don’t know, is that for this approach to work people first have to care about the group in question and once they do, only then can you tap into that. Society at large simply does not care about men and social sentiment must proceed changes in legislation. MRAs lack of success is due to their lack of understanding the basics.
Not only do MRAs lack the basic understanding of how society works but they also lack an understanding of basic female nature. MRAs will tell you “women are a gender and feminism is an ideology and we are anti-feminism and not anti-women” and in their attempt not be seen as misogynist they reveal how deep their misunderstanding goes. Feminism is just a tool just like a gun is a tool and MRAs are similar to stricter gun law activists who blame existing gun laws after every school shooting and completely ignore the people behind triggers.
What they don’t understand is guns don’t kill people but people kill people and if they focused on the people pulling the triggers they will have more success preventing future mass shootings. Fact #1 the people behind these shootings are usually boys. And what do these boys have in common? This leads us to fact #2, that 90% of them are on prescription drugs. And why are so many of them on drugs? Fact #3 Because we have a school system catered to girls in which female behaviour is considered the norm and if boys behave like boys there behaviour is seen as disruptive and they are diagnosed with ADHD leading to them getting drugged up to ‘normalise’ them . Or you could just blame guns and toxic masculinity.
Moving on from MRAs the other group of men in the manosphere are Pick Up Artists or more commonly known as PUAs. This group of men’s goal is seduction and sexual success with/access to women. Unlike MRAs, PUAs understand female nature but their problem is they limit their understanding of female nature to female sexuality only — if it won’t get them laid they aren’t interested and in the process allow their dicks to get in the way of their thinking.
All PUAs aspire to be an alpha male and an alpha male to them is the man that gets the most women. PUAs will say there is more to being an alpha and try ascribe noble characteristics to ‘alphaness’ like leadership and argue they teach men to improve themselves (workout, dress better, make more money etc) but don’t let this fool you, they only do this to increase their sexual market value (SMV). If you’ve improved yourself in all these areas but are still a virgin you’re a beta in their eyes. A man who lacks in all those areas like this homeless man  but can still pull women is more alpha in PUA eyes than a guy whose a cultured CEO with a six pack but whose a virgin. And if you think this is extreme, Rollo Tomasi, a prominent PUA, went further and said that prison has the highest concentration of alpha males .
PUAs, it seems operate in an irony proof prism since the core of their identity is based on female validation yet seeking female validation to them is a beta move. You quickly realise they’re a bunch of confused pussy begging beta males — to use their syntax. When you look at all of this and combine it with the fact that their goal is to sleep with as many women as possible in a society currently under going rape hysteria, it is easily visible that PUAs do more harm than good.
Men Going Their Own Way or MGTOW are the third group of men who make up the manosphere. What exactly are ‘men going their own way’ running away from? A gynocentric and subsequently misandric society that does not value male life and liberty. MGTOW want men to live their lives on their own terms and not on the terms dictated to them by women and the state.
Society has laid out a mans life for him before he is even born. A man is born a boy and this boy is put into a nursery on his 3rd birthday and as he gets older he moves up making his way through the education system (indoctrination system would be a much more apt name) and spends his childhood sitting in a classroom while looking out the window day dreaming about freedom, the freedom to go outside and run among nature by climbing the trees and roaming the fields. As he approaches his twenties he is told he better have a university degree if he wants a good career so goes to university but by the time he graduates he is up to his eye balls in debt  and his job prospects aren’t looking too good . He tries to get a job to pay off this student debt but to get a job he needs experiences and to gain experience he needs to have a job so this forces him to work for free interning to gain the experience required to get his foot through the door .
Society doesn’t stop there and isn’t content on just making him do a soul draining job just to pay back his students loans. Society goes further and the poor young man into starting a family with a woman who doesn’t love him  and demands he spend couple months of his wages on an engagement ring  and present it to her on his knees, taking away in the process any dignity he had left. She also demands he spend almost a years salary to celebrate the big day . And don’t forget the honeymoon to somewhere expensive, I mean romantic.
All this extra financial burden means the poor mans (literally and figuratively) has to spend more time at his soul crushing job . Children, although cute, add to that financial responsibility and to come up with the extra cash he spends even more time at his soul crushing job and since there’s only 24 hours in a day he doesn’t gets to see his children — which begs the question, why have them in the first place.
My father used to work abroad for 7 months of the year. One year they demanded he stay for the remainder of the year because they needed him and fearing saying no will have a negative impact on his career he agreed, he then agreed to another extension the following year which meant hand I didn’t see him for 2 years and in the mean time things got bad at our home country so dad decided that it was better that we relocate to Europe were he worked. The migration process was long and difficult and I didn’t see him for another 3 years. When I met him at the air port for the first time in 5 years he didn’t even recognise me. How many men cross the US border through Mexico each that left behind their families and work low paying backbreaking jobs just to send that money back home. These men don’t get to enjoy their labour nor their family.
This is what MGTOW is freeing men from. Now what do these newly freed men do with their newly found freedom? This is an existential question, one that is essentially asking what is the purposes of a mans life? Why was man put on earth if?
This is where the enemies of MGTOW come in and accuse men going their own way of being unemployed basement dwellers who spend their days playing video games. They say this for couple of reasons; a) because they can’t fathom an existence in which they as men aren’t serving women and the state and b) it is projection on their behalf because these men as I have already stated have never imagined an existence in which they aren’t serving women and the state so when they encounter men who are free from these so called “obligations” and “responsibilities” for the first time they imagine all they do with this newly found free time is fill it with their hobbies. A bit like asking a boy what he will do if school was canceled for the day. Play games with his friends would be the first thing out of his mouth, right? But what about if school was canceled for life and he never had to go back, how long can he keep playing these games?
In the film Limitless Eddie Maura played by Bradley Cooper is a writer suffering from writers block whose broke and heart broken. After taking NZT (a drug that gives him 100% access to his brain) he starts working out, buys new clothes, gets a new haircut and spends the first couple weeks/months playing poker, banging chicks, flying in private jets and racing around foreign cities in sports cars with exotic babes riding shotgun. However the novelty of it soon wears off and he starts putting his newly found powers to bigger things like finding treatment for his aunty’s illness. To cut a long story short by the end of the film he’s running for the office of Mayor of New York and in the spin-off TV show he is a senator whose touted to be the next president.
And this reality is reflected in the real world. If you look at the architects of Western society it is littered MGTOW. Pierre Bayle, Robert Boyle, Johannes Brahms, Samuel Butler, Robert Burton, Franz Schubert, Ludwig van Beethoven, Ludwig Wittgenstein, Johannes Brahms, Giacomo Casanova, Frederic Chopin, Nicolaus Copernicus, Eugène Delacroix, Gustave Flaubert, Galileo Galilei, Edward Gibbon, Oliver Goldsmith, Thomas Hobbes, Horace, David Hume, John Locke, Adam Smith, Washington Irving, Henry James, Franz Kafka, Rene Descartes, Immanuel Kant, Voltaire, Jean Paul Sartre, Kierkegaard, Charles Lamb, T. E. Lawrence, Meriwether Lewis, Philip Larkin, Gottfried Leibniz, Michelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci, Vincent van Gogh, Friedrich Nietzsche, Arthur Schopenhauer, Sir Isaac Newton, Blaise Pascal, Alexander Pope, Marcel Prous, Maurice Ravel, George Santayana, Benedict de Spinoza, Stendhal, Jonathon Swift, Nikola Tesla, Henry David Thoreau, Henri De Toulouse-Lautrec and Herbert Spencer just to name a view .
Another reason that I haven’t mentioned on why these men accuse MGTOW of being lazy basement dwellers is because they know MGTOW are not trying to seek female validation and the fact that everything they do in their own shitty lives is done with women in mind allows them to come to the natural conclusion that if we MGTOW are not trying to seek female validation then we have no reason to do anything. As if men study quantum physics to get pussy — because we all know bitches love quantum physics.
Now coming back to the manosphere, the mistake we as MGTOW made is we looked at the other men in the manosphere and saw that they like us were antifeminists and came to the common conclusion of ‘the enemy of my enemy is my friend” and this is why it was shocking and incredibly disappointing when we started receiving shaming language and even worse doxxing  — behavioural expectations we rightly reserved for feminists — from our fellow men in the manosphere. However if we take a step back it is easy to see that these men were never our brothers in arms since we were never fighting the same fight.
To understand this we have to go back to when we first entered the manosphere. We all started off as blue pillers who were suspicious of the ‘truth’ we had been told. We couldn’t explain our suspicion but we felt it, felt it our entire lives. That there’s something wrong with the world. We didn’t know what it was, but it was there. Like a splinter in our minds — driving us mad. It is this feeling that has us to the manosphere. Once in the manosphere it was clearly explained to us by MRAs that this patriarchy that we were told privileged us was actually oppressing us and they had the statistics to prove it — number of homeless that are men, number of workplace deaths victims that are men, number of men who commit suicide, number of men who win child custody etc.
And regarding our personal lives we knew that from personal experience that being nice to girls we were attracted to was not the way to go but PUAs explained to us why. All was good but there was something still missing and thats why we started going our own from our respective groups and eventually found MGTOW.
Those of us in the PUA community like myself were simply interested in more than getting pussy and the lure of pussy frankly started to wear off. The MGTOW who came from MRA side realised that a) MRAs had no success and that they hand’t succeeded in changing a single misandric law and since MRAs have been around more misandric laws have been passed and b) that feminism was just a symptom and the cause was female nature. These men decided to dig deeper into female nature and this cemented their downfall from the MRA community.
The manosphere has become the gynocentric systems fail safe. We as human beings naturally seek validation from other humans. It gives us comfort and a peace of mind that we aren’t the only ones going through whatever that is we are going through. Mainstream gynocentric society simply denies the legitimate questions men have about what they are being told and invalidates their concerns and more importantly suffering. A lot of men internalise this message and just think to themselves that there’s something wrong with them and not the system. However some men aren’t easily dissuaded and dig deeper resulting in them stumbling across the manosphere.
In the manosphere they find a safe space (I know I sound like a feminist with the use of safe spaces but bear with me) that validates their pain and suffering and they don’t feel alone or crazy. Now this is when the manosphere, which supposedly exists to wake them up and enlighten them, stabs them in the back by giving them gynocentric solutions and sending them back to the plantation. The message of the red pill is washed down and they end up with a purple pill which is some half way house between the red pill world and the blue pill world similar to the train station in Matrix Revolution.
The reason why the shaming language we receive from PUAs and MRAs is exactly identical to that of women is because they are both gynocentric at the core level. PUAs, like women, profit from men being slaves to their base biology. While MGTOW tries to free men their own biological drives and subsequently freeing them from women. PUAs teach men through their seminars and books how to better serve women – an alpha male and beta male both serve women. An alpha male and beta male can be compared to cricket and baseball. Although on the surface they look different with different rules, uniforms, equipment and playing style they’re identical at the core. Both can be summed up as one man throwing a ball as hard as he can at another man who has a bat whose job is to hit the ball as hard as he can. If he hits it so hard that it leaves the field of play job done but if he doesn’t hit it that hard and one of the out field players catches the ball before it touches the floor he is out. The differences are only in the details; how one throws the ball, how one hits the ball, the type of ball and bat etc.
MRAs are not fighting to leave the plantation but are simply demanding better working conditions — that is what the marriage strike is about. The beef between MRAs and MGTOW is similar to that between the house negros and the field negros — one happy with better working conditions while the latter wants total freedom. This is why we MGTOW have to go our own way from the manosphere just like we did with mainstream society. Since the manosphere exists in cyberspace we are not loosing any ground by leaving it — we will still have our own websites, blogs, youtube accounts and forums online. We will just not associate ourselves with the manosphere. MGTOW evolved when we separated from the MRAs and now the time is right for us to disconnect and disassociate ourselves from the wider manosphere.
 Drugging Up The American Boy http://www.esquire.com/news-politics/a32858/drugging-of-the-american-boy-0414/
 Homeless PUA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmav517MQJc
 3/4 Graduates Paying Graduates Paying Student Loans Into Their 50s http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2601146/Three-four-graduates-paying-student-loans-50s-Most-face-having-debt-written-30-year-limit.html
 Graduates Have No Hope Finding Jobs http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2013/07/16/graduates-no-hope-finding-job_n_3604908.html
 Interns All Work No Pay http://www.theguardian.com/money/2013/nov/22/interns-all-work-no-pay-internships
 She Will Never Love You https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PgeAQMcxZ-M
 De Beers myth: Do People Spend a Month’s Salary on a Diamond Engagement Ring? http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-27371208
 Couples Now Spend More Than $30,000 to Get Married http://money.cnn.com/2015/03/12/pf/planning-for-wedding-costs/
 Love or Money: Why Married Men Make More https://www.stlouisfed.org/Publications/Regional-Economist/April-2002/For-Love-or-Money-Why-Married-Men-Make-More
 Bachelorhood And Its Discontents http://www.newenglishreview.org/Orlet/Bachelorhood_And_Its_Discontents/
 Prominent MGTOW Doxxed https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oB5JvbowQT4